A wedding without children

An increasing number of future brides and grooms choose not to invite children to their weddings. “No children at wedding” , the different reasons mentioned are often the same: lack of space, organizational difficulties, desire to enjoy this event between adults, tight budget… But the real question is: how to organize so that our little ones do not turn a wedding ceremony into a disaster?.

A little back story, and some facts:

First, a couple had decided to invite 11 children to their wedding but had not planned for babysitters because their budget was limited. However, they had given clear instructions to the parents to manage their children and respect the place.

Already, during the reception, while the parents were enjoying the evening, many children were running around, behind the DJ’s equipment, or even going into the kitchens.
But the absolute highlight was finding a child at 2 am. in a wheat field next to the ceremony site.

At the end of the reception, the bride and groom were shocked to see the disaster: the children’s reception area was vandalized. Drinks, desserts, and candy were smashed on the floor and walls, storybooks tore up, and a stained chair. And disgruntled vendors were forced to collect the deposit.

Budget and adults-only weddings

While the bride and groom were looking to save money by not hiring a babysitter, they ended up paying more for the deterioration of the venue’s furniture.

The lesson?

If a wedding ceremony includes children, it will be preferable that they are seated with their parents, who can then better watch over them.

But if the bride and groom decide to include a children’s corner during the ceremony, it is essential to have at least one adult to supervise them.

As proof, the testimony of this happy bride for whom the presence of children was priceless. She wanted to have a children’s area as well. So she made the necessary arrangements to make sure everything went smoothly.

“I couldn’t resolve myself inviting without the kids because I wanted to have the whole family with me.

I used babysitters and we set up bouncy castles, candy bars, play and drawing areas, and even brought in a magician with the optional “upgrade” service! “

Another experience of a mother being invited to a wedding.

You have to be aware of this!

I’m sure I’ll look like an unworthy mother. I went to a wedding with my son who was barely a year old at that time. No animation planned for them, no babysitter; and no place to put the little ones to sleep.

I think that, from a financial point of view, the budget was too important for the bride and groom to be able to manage the children.

This was our first big night since the birth of our baby.  Above all, we truly love with all our hearts.

With my husband, we thought we were going to have fun until 5:00, and at 11:30 we were back home, in bed.

It’s been an awful night. We took turns at mealtime to manage our toddler. Who would have undeniably preferred to be in a quiet and cozy bed, rather than in a noisy room with lots of strangers?

Firstly, he did not stop crying because he was tired (impossible to put a cot). Secondly, he never stopped running, he never stayed in place, etc. And, therefore, I understand the choice of a “childless” wedding and for the well-being of all, young and old.

That is to say, I would have preferred that the bride and groom specify on the invitations that the wedding would be without children and regardless of the reason. To clarify, it really doesn’t matter the reason.

I just felt like I have to share our story with wedding guests to let them know about our experience.

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Wedding seating ideas for the newlywed couple

Which Is The Best Seating Wedding Arrangement

Planning a wedding reception can be a daunting task. From compiling guest lists to choosing a place setting, centerpieces, and linens, there are several things to take into consideration. One of the most important decisions the bride and the groom can make is the seating arrangement.

Rather than stress about the sitting arrangement to adopt for your big day, here is a list of the top seating configurations you can choose from.

1. Sweetheart table

A sweetheart table is a small (usually circular), intimate table set up for the bride and the groom at their wedding reception, making them the focal point of the wedding. You’ve probably seen this sitting arrangement on social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and wedding magazines.

2. Round table is The Best Seating Wedding Arrangement?

Also known as a circular setting arrangement, the round table is usually placed at the center or function room so guests will be close to you and your partner instead of an option that keeps you both far away from them.

It is a classic choice for those who want their wedding to have a timeless feel.

Round tables can “interlock” in a floor plan, allowing you to sit more guests per square footage. They allow maximum capacity in most venues.

3. Head table

The head table seating arrangement is perfect for those who want to be with their wedding party at the reception. It typically refers to a large table placed at the front of the reception, occupied by the bride (and her bridesmaids) on the left and the groom and (his groomsmen) on the right.

Which Is The Best Seating Wedding Arrangement? Verdict

In conclusion, the wedding seating arrangement that is right for you depends on various factors. The venue, budget, and even weather conditions will impact your choice.

Make sure you factor in each of these considerations and think through what kind of atmosphere you want to create at your reception.

Don’t let seating charts stress you out

Moreover, as a wedding planner, I feel the right table for your big day is round or oval. This will create a warm atmosphere, and no one will be left out. Alternatively, you can also opt for a “sweetheart” table if you feel comfortable with the idea. This table can be placed in the first row among your guests’ tables. This way, you can share a relaxing moment with the love of your life.

Please note that I won’t be suggesting the head table. It is better used if you are a celebrity or have a crowned head with many photographers. Using this table implies that people at the table might feel bored and lonely sitting alone.

If you are looking for an event planner to handle your seating configurations and other functions, reach us today.

Small wedding

Small weddings, love in the time of Covid hasn’t been easy for any couples, especially those planning a wedding. The displays of strength, grace, and patience brides and grooms have shown during the pandemic are inspiring. They have proven love always shines through. The bridal trend of intimate weddings certainly shows it is true.

Little wedding

If you are considering a small wedding, we want to share the many wonderful benefits. Soon you might be wondering why an intimate wedding wasn’t the plan all along.

At a small wedding, you can spend quality time with all of the guests and with the love of your life. Your conversations can be meaningful and in-depth because you don’t have to rush around to see many people. There is a relaxed feeling in the air, as you don’t have to factor in long speeches and can cut the double-tiered chocolate raspberry truffle cake whenever you please.

Budget and micro wedding

Your budget is flexible when you have a small wedding. You can have the wedding you dreamed of and save the money you would have spent on food and drink for 100 people. That can be used on an exotic honeymoon or saved for the future. Or you can invest those savings into a more luxurious experience on the wedding day by choosing an amazing venue or having elaborate lights, florals, and decorations.

Just because your guest list is small, there is no need to cut back on the wedding day celebrations. Hire a classy trio band to play during dinner. And maybe swap the big dance floor and disco lights for elegant fairy lights draped over your long reception table. You might even give pretty envelopes as wedding favors enclosed with a voucher for a private tour around the Occitanie or Toulouse-Carcassonne region the next day.

Some more attractive benefits of a small wedding are:

• They are easier to plan compared to big weddings
• Intimate weddings are trendy
• Fewer time-consuming group photos are needed
• You have more venues to choose from
• Small weddings are romantic

Sometimes bridal trends emerge from unexpected places. The pandemic has renewed the popularity of elopements and micro weddings and as wedding and event planners, we love designing, planning, and executing these highly romantic and intimate affairs.

We arrange exquisite weddings in the South of France in the most scenic places like vineyards, charming French Domaine gardens, and regal castles.

Drop us a love letter any time to discuss your small romantic wedding. We can’t wait to hear from you!

Corona virus: postpone, cancel or keep your celebration

During the current COVID-19 health crisis and quarantine, should you keep your wedding date or postpone it?

Due to the coronavirus pandemic, the French wedding season is heavily impacted and in these times of uncertainty, many brides and grooms are left with a lot of unresolved questions. Should they reschedule their wedding and what are the alternative options to consider?

As a first step, for all weddings scheduled after May 11th, I strongly advise you to wait for the next two weeks when the new coronavirus containment measures will be unveiled to the public by the French government.

How do I know if I should postpone, cancel or keep my wedding date?

It is crucial to ask yourself the right questions:
Since the most important thing is to stay healthy and protect your loved ones, wouldn’t it be better to postpone the wedding for a few months or even a year? Will your guests be able to attend with all the border restrictions in place? Given the current situation, will your guests risk attending the wedding since they will fear for their safety?

How can I postpone my wedding?

First and foremost, you must contact your vendors to try to find availability for future dates and of course this will require flexibility from both parties.
If you want to postpone your wedding, you will have a better chance to find available vendors and venues during the winter or fall months, but if you prefer to tie the knot during the summer, you should choose a weekday.

No matter what day or season you choose, you can always make your wedding ceremony an unforgettable moment. If you consider a country house wedding during the winter season, don’t forget about gathering all the necessary elements that may not have been needed in the summertime. This sometimes requires additional expenses and readjustments. our content goes here.

Your wedding takes place after May 11th and you want to postpone it.

Containment measures to stem the development of coronavirus and the closing of borders in many countries to prevent more infections have a major impact on contracts. If your wedding was planned during the quarantine period or during the ban on gatherings of more than 100 people, this is a case of force majeure, but the situation is different if the containment measures are lifted.

Hence the importance of waiting for the new containment measures taken by the French government to make a final decision concerning your wedding date. If quarantine measures are implemented, read your vendors’ contracts and see if they allow you to postpone the wedding at no cost. Even if they are struggling with the impact of the coronavirus health crisis, vendors may be willing to work with you. You will also have to consider the work vendors have invested in the wedding preparations, hence the need to be accommodating in this unprecedented situation.

You want to keep your wedding date because it has sentimental value and special meaning for you.

If your heart is set on a specific wedding date and the containment measures are lifted, you have the option of first having a small wedding at the town hall with a limited number of guests and postponing your wedding ceremony until later, when the threat of the coronavirus is over.

This way, you will have kept this uniquely important date while celebrating your wedding with the love of your life. Proceeding this way will give you the advantage of a less stressful wedding day that won’t turn into a marathon and it will also give you the possibility of wearing 2 different dresses!
In the meantime, stay safe, take care of your families

Your wedding planner: MC Events Planner, Toulouse and Carcassonne area in the South of France

Wedding guest list  guideline help

Do you need help to sort out your wedding guest list? This is for you:

Making your wedding guest list

How to make your wedding guest list? An easy guide to avoid getting lost in the organization of your wedding.

Making the guest list for your wedding may seem like a daunting task. In fact, it’s one of the first steps in planning your big day and it requires some careful thought. However, with a little organization and strategy, it can be an easy and enjoyable task.

Wedding guest list

The first step in creating your guest list is to determine the size of your wedding. You need to decide whether you want an intimate wedding with only your closest family and friends or a larger wedding with more distant guests and work colleagues. The size of your wedding will depend on your personal preferences, budget, and the location of your wedding.

Size of the wedding

Once you have determined the size of your wedding, it’s time to create your guest list. Start by making a preliminary list of people you want to invite. It’s important to take the time to think about all the people you would like to have by your side to celebrate this special day. Don’t forget to consult with your partner to ensure that you’re not leaving anyone out.

Evaluation

Next, evaluate your list and determine the people you can’t afford to invite. This may include people you haven’t seen in a long time, work colleagues, or distant acquaintances. This can be difficult, but it’s important to keep in mind that you can’t invite everyone and you’ll have to make some tough decisions.

Once you’ve eliminated potential guests, it’s time to rank your list in order of priority. Put the most important people at the top of the list and those who are less important at the bottom. This will help you decide who to invite if you have to cut the list due to budget constraints.

Another effective strategy is to create categories of guests. For example, you can have a category for your close family, one for your close friends, one for your work colleagues, etc. This will help you organize your list and determine how many people you can invite in each category.

Evolution of your list

It’s important to keep in mind that your guest list may change over time. People may get married, separated, move away or change jobs, and this can have an impact on your guest list. Therefore, it’s important to keep it up-to-date and review it regularly.

Once you’ve finalized your guest list, you can start sending out invitations. It’s important to send your invitations several months in advance to give your guests enough time to plan their trip and RSVP to your invitation.

In conclusion

Making your wedding guest list may seem like a daunting task, but with a little thought and planning, it can be a stress-free and enjoyable experience. Keep in mind your personal preferences, budget, and location of your wedding.

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What is a wedding planner?

The wedding planner is a specialist in wedding organization who creates weddings in the image of the bride and groom: reception venue, caterer, photographer, DJ, and more), organizes the roadmap of the day, (ceremony, cocktail, evening, animation,) as well as the budgetary aspect if it is included in the chosen formula. This requires versatility and obviously efficiency.

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